People give thanks for many things – their job, health, and material possessions. Sometimes it is easy to lose sight of what is really important – our children. Now is the time to make a little extra effort show our children how thankful we really are to have them. Here are a few ways to show your child how you feel:
1. Plan a special day for just you and your child. Plan ahead and mark it on your calendar if you need to. (It can be fun to cross off the days until your “special” day and count the days together).
2. Go to school and have lunch with your child.
3. Make a card for your child (sometimes homemade is better then store bought).
4. Write your child a note and stick it in his lunch box.
5. Read a story to your child every night.
6. Look through her baby book and share stories telling how you felt when she was born and other fond memories.
7. Give your child a picture to take with him.
8. Volunteer in your child’s classroom.
9. Take time to listen to your child. Plan a “talk time” everyday with your child (for at least 15 minutes) to share the day’s events.
10. Keep a memory journal for your child (write down special feelings, events).
11. Use cookie cutters to cut your child’s sandwiches into fun shapes.
12. Interact with your child daily (play a game, bake cookies, take a walk, help with homework).
13. Display your child’s artwork prominently (on the fridge, over your work area, or even matte and frame special pieces).
14. Make it a priority to attend your child’s plays, games, and any other performances or contests they may be a part of. She needs your support.
15. Most importantly – tell him how thankful you are for him.
Parents aren’t perfect, but a little effort can go a long way. Taking a little time to show your children how thankful you are for them can really make a difference in how they feel about themselves and others. The extra time you spend with your children is time that they will be thankful for in the end.
© Amy Coggins from thelaboroflove.com
